Cat City Trip

fb didn't allow me to post too many words at once..

so i decided to use this old neglected blogspot of mine as another space for discussing our trip~

Cat City Trip

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該帶的

1. 重要文件(IC, 學生證, 駕照等等)

2. 黃金(我也不曉得該建議帶多少, 多好過少啦..哈哈)

3. 快樂的心情

4. 相機(不用每個人, 幾個單眼應該就ok了..哈哈)

5. Sleeping bag(誰有就帶吧..我家的tilam真的沒那麼多)

6. 舒服的鞋子(會走不少路吧…好自為之啦~)

7. 足夠的換洗內外衣物(包括一些適合下水玩水的衣褲, 遮陽的鴨嘴帽等等)

8. 個人藥物(氣喘, 敏感, 經痛等等)

9. ……

該吃的

1. Kolo mee

2. Kan pua mee

3. Laksa

4. Kong pia

5. Belacan bee hoon

6. Lui cha

7. O-luak(古晉的蚵仔煎)

8. Roti kiap(Kch’s typical breakfast)

9. Ice

10. Kueh chap

11. Bak kut teh

12. Open air(燒麥+豆漿)

13. ......

該去的

1. Sarawak museum (city area)

2. Waterfront (city area)

3. 大伯公廟(city area)

4. Carpenter street (city area)

5. India street (city area)

6. The Spring (city area)

a. Kuching’s biggest mall

7. 馬中公園(city area)

8. Cultural village

9. One of the beaches(damai, santubong…)

10. Cat museum

11. One of the caves(fairy, wind…)

a. 在古晉市南方的一個小鎮 - 石隆門 (Bau) 有著兩個被列入國家保護區的鐘乳石洞，一個叫風洞(wind cave)，另一個叫仙洞(fairy cave)。從石隆門小鎮驅車前往，約5分鐘就可以抵達風洞，仙洞則要15分鐘左右(註：古晉到石隆門約30分鐘。)。

b. 這兩個洞的景觀差異頗大，主要是仙洞有個很大的洞室，洞內採光很好。風洞則是黑漆漆的洞內通道。

c. 仙洞容易抵達，從停車場上到洞內約15分鐘，洞內約需40分鐘逛。

12. Kubah national park

a. 离古晋约45分钟车程

13. Matang Wildlife center

a. Near above

14. Crocodile farm

a. 开放时间：上午９时至下午５时

b. 砂劳越人 RM10
外地人 RM16

15. 青山岩

a. 砂劳越最园艺化的佛庙

b. 45+ mins away

16. Gunung Gading

a. 距离古晋市区约两个小时车程

b. 世界上最大的花－莱佛士花

17. Borneo highland

a. 2+ hours away

18. ……

Long time no see...

wow..it's really ages away since i last posted...
what have i been doing all these while ah??

no idea at all...kaka~



so, the last time i post was after my haircut after the mid-terms...
this time, it's after another haircut after the finals...haha


well, actually my finals have already ended 2 weeks ago...
even the results are out already...
didn't do too well this sem, but at least passed every subject with an 80-above average...
so, masih boleh tahan lah...(self-consoling...)




anyway, let's say 'Hi' to July..
July means summer...the hot burning summer...
and summer means holidays...
holidays so long that sch only starts right before my birthday..



anyway, these 2 beginning weeks of d hols passed quite quickly because i made quite full use of it..

most of the time, i'm working as an office boy in my uni's academic department...
(bout 3 or 4 days a week, 9am-5pm..)
many errands to run, many letters to send, many documents to chop, many things to type, bla bla bla...

then i did a few times of volunteering work too...
filling out forms for old people who come to do medical check-ups...
looking after little kids when their mums are attending some sorta "how to be a good mother" course...
etc..~~

shown below is the naughtiest boy out of the 8 kids, all aged below 2 years old...
he's very cute though~

(btw, this was taken b4 the haircut...can compare~kaka~)

so, that was how i spent my 2 weeks of holiday warm-up..

how long more do i have??
the whole July...
the whole August...
& half a September...


that's how long it is...


YES,
that's a total of 2.5 months...
wow~


this time last year, i was busy preparing for the course-switching(medicine to dentistry) exam, which i failed...

so, for those who don't know yet, i'm now a medical student, not a dentistry one...haha~



this year, how should i fill up these long holiday??


working as an office boy?? to earn some pocket money~

YES!!


finding another job outside sch?? to earn more pocket money~

applied for one but wasn't chosen, so NO...lazy to find others..
moreover, i can only work part time this summer and can't continue when sch starts...
that's a main reason many ppl dun wanna employ me...sad..


playing lots of basketball?? to improve my skills n exercising to keep the belly from getting too big~

big YES!!


playing around?? to relax n at the same time get to know tw a little more~

YES!! btw, CJ is coming tmr, XL on the 13th, ah POI sooner or later...
so, that's excuse for me to play around and waste some money..LOL


a preview of my year 3 books n lectures?? to get a basic concept of what i'm going to study~

YES!! but maybe not so soon...haha...hopefully will start by august...


reading of extra-curricular books n news?? to know more about anything else~

YES!! will try to read more...



i guess this is more or less how my summer will turn out...
anyone with nice ideas on how i can spend this hols, feel free to speak up..
thanks in advance~



As mentioned at first, i had a haircut 2 days ago...

So, this is it...



bid farewell to the long n messy hair...



welcome, short hair...

a new summer look...

and yeah, there're some new friends of mine o would like to introduce...



let's welcome them with a big hand....



presenting my new room-mates...

the 4 "Red Lanterns"...

Have fun, pals...

Enjoy the summer(or winter) holidays!!

For those who already graduate, congrats...
(plus a little envy n be song , cos i only finished a quarter of my uni life...haha)


-End-

before ------> ------> AFTER

went to have a hair cut today...

in fact,
not just a ordinary haircut...



Oh my GOSH~

today, i did something i once said i wouldn't try...



yes, i'm a lier(only at times)..
shit~



besides the hair cut, i had my hair permed, dyed n treated...



what the?/

can u still believe i'm the old Benjamin Lai Chung Howe??

so this is it~ ~

haha...not this la....

didn't wanted it to be so bright actually,

but end up like this kir...

in all, i think counted 69% satisfied la..

haha...

this cost me NT$2499 (about=RM275)...

walao...half my scholarship of NT$5000 is gone just like that...

Ai...long long one time la...

so be it~

What if i DIE tomorrow??

What if i die tomorrow??



What if you die tomorrow??





have u even tried pondering it before??

have u ever thought about what might happen to u the very next moment??

have u been afraid that u might not wake up to see the world the next morning??

have u been afraid of losing everything in just a blink of the eye??





if u know that tmr's ur last day,what are the things would u do before u end ur life??

things u think u must accomplish??

things u'll regret not doing??

things u're reluctant to do if u were yet alive??





have u thought of it before??

Give it a try..

try to list out the three things u 1st think of...
(very welcome to type it in my comments..hehe)






so, the story begins...


i had an exam yesterday(tues)...n i'll be having another 1 tmr(thurs)...

it was already 8pm on tues when a friend told me that we had to hand in an assignment(a will..can be very freestyle~) today(wed)..

i was like "WTF!! couldn't u have told me earlier...??!!"
(Actually it's my own mistake not remembering the deadline..I'M SORRY..)

So, i was worried all along n asked if anyone had a copy i could refer to(or maybe even copy..haha)

in the end, i managed to find lots of ppl who did this assignment before...

but u know what??

none out of the 8 or 9 ppl had saved their copies...

again, WTF??


so, bobian la...

i start typing lo...
simply type...
at the end, i manage to get 4 pages...



So, my will is as below:
(forgive me for my teruk mandarin...)


立遺囑人賴宗豪於廿零零九年四月十八日立下此書。

當你們看到這文章時,我已遠離你們而去,到那遙遠的地方。
我以後再也不能陪在你們的身邊了。對不起!
請你們要原諒我! 原諒我比你們早了一步踏上這條不歸路。我也是非常不願意的。我不想就這樣失去我們之間的親情、友情、愛情。
不過，我想沒關係。因為我們都知道我們彼此永遠都會住在彼此的心中，永埋在彼此的腦海裡。就因為這樣,我希望你們不要為我感到悲傷,不要為我感到不舍,也不要為我落淚。
天下無不散之筵席,你們就當我是先離開的那一位吧!
可以生活到今時今日,我想我也應該滿足了。在我這段說長不長,說短不短的生涯裡,有著你們大家的陪伴,讓我生活更精采、更充實,一點也不浪費。真的要感激你們大家啊!
謝謝! 謝謝! 謝謝!

爸、媽：
我對不起您們。我還沒來得及報答您們,卻就這樣現行告別了。請原諒我的不孝！您們的養育之恩，您們無限奉獻的愛，我只能說“爸媽，我愛你！”也許我都沒把它表現出來，不過我真的，真的很愛你們。在我在世之時，都沒能激起足夠的勇氣說出這麽簡單的3個字，真是沒用啊！
在此，我獻給天下的子女們：“勇敢的愛你們的父母親啊！”

姐姐：
在家中,你我倆的年齡差距最小了。我們之間有著較多共同的話題，共同的思考，共同的默契。就這樣，你成了全世界跟我最熟悉的那個人。你從小就那麽疼我，寵我，處處讓著我。謝謝你,也辛苦你了。事業上，你已找到你感興趣的領域了，希望你可以工作得愉快。愛情方面，小弟我真得祝你早日找到你的白馬王子，讓他好好愛護你，照顧你一輩子。想念我的時候就想起我們一起念書、一起補習、一起看劇、一起打桌球、一起聊心事的那些日子吧！“姐，我也愛你。”

弟弟：
也許你已不記得了，不過多年前幼稚的我曾經是多麽喜歡欺負你啊！請你原諒我。我知道你很多方面都會以我這個大哥爲例。而我這個做大的，非常的遺憾不能成爲一 個很好的榜樣。哥相信有朝一日你一定會成爲一個非常優秀的男人的。要多點自信噢！你可以的！不要忘記我們一起打羽球、一起下象棋、一起打電動、一起養蜘蛛 的那些美好日子。“弟，我也愛你。”

姐+弟：
爸媽就交給你們了！你們要好好照顧他們啊！

幼稚園&小學的朋友們：
畢業了以後，都沒找個時間跟你們好好的聚一聚、敍敍舊，真是非常的遺憾啊！只能在這祝福你們大家都找到自己的幸福。

中學的朋友們：
大家一起念書、一起拼大考、一起跑接力賽、一起大合唱、一起到處收舊報紙、一起喝茶聊天、一起哭哭笑笑的那些日子，永遠都是大家心中非常美好的回憶。我們一 起做的事情實在是太多了，而那卻已是我們都會不去的少年時光。從彼此非常陌生的中一生發展到無話不談的好朋友，謝謝你們陪伴我的那六年。在你們當中，當然 也包括了我的初戀、我的高中伴侶。謝謝你讓我更認識我自己，也讓我更認識男女閒愛情這個奇妙的東西。在此，我祝福你可以找到更適合你更好的男人。當然，也 祝其他所有朋友快點找到你們的另一半。

大學的朋友們：
我在台灣的大家庭（北僑）的所有兄弟姐妹們，你們與我一起慶生、過中秋、過聖誕等等。你們都在我遇到困難、挫折時，安慰我、關心我、照顧我。我從馬來西亞離家背井來到臺灣這個地方深造，是你們讓我感受到有家的感覺。謝謝你們大家！
我的籃球隊友們，謝謝你們都願意陪我打球。大家一起練球、一起比賽、一起檢討的時光都很快樂。你們永遠都是我最好的隊友。“北馬三俠”Go Go Go!

最後，我要再次感謝曾經在我生命中出現過的每一個人。是你們在我的人生中加了各種不同的調味料，讓我可以感受到生命中的酸甜苦辣。我的生命之路雖説不長，但卻因爲有了你們大家而變得如此寬闊啊！感激你們！我愛你們！


(really typed in a rush...
part real part fake...
really missed out lots of things...
so don't feel left out, my friends...)



i LOVE you all~~
n really, thanks to all of u for coloring n decorating my life...



also, thanks for reading...
i guess this is my longest blog ever...haha

haha..

One day, Tom dreamt about having a talk with God...

...

...

Tom: To you, how long is a million years?

God: A minute...

Tom: To you, how much is a million dollars?

God: A dollar...

......

Tom: Then can u please give me a dollar??

......

......

......

God: Sure!! Give me a minute...

weird life lately...

Lately, life has been quite different...

as it is, i don't expect my life to be busy...

yet, i've been sleeping at "early" hours for a few days lately...
n waking only at lunchtime...

what a way of life...

in fact, i dislike myself for sleeping so much, being so "pig-gie"...haizz..



there're problems popping up here n there now n then...

sometimes, i consider myself a greedy person, i think...

i wanna be a good guy, a good friend, a good son, a good brother..in short, a wanted & likeable person...

the matter i now face is being a good friend...

i dare say it isn't hard to own friends(as in common friends)...

but when u say pals or chums, u really mean people who are very good friends, people who make u fell comfortable n happy, and in return share yours with them...

yet, sometimes i can't be sure if i can give my buddies this kinda feeling...

i wanna improve, i wanna have many many more buddies...

i want my life colourful with all sorts of friends...



so much crap, n i haven mention the matter..haha



when you happen to have 2 different groups of friends, A & B...

you want to befriend both sides...

but the problem is these 2 sides have problems in between...

both sides have made their own mistakes..

yet, no one is willing is take a step backwards...

i might not understand the whole situation..

but i still believe that it is not only one's fault...

i dare say no one is totally correct...

being someone on top of the wall, how can i choose which side to fall??

being a greedy person, i wanna maintain my friendship with both sides...

yet, when i open my mouth, i believe i might hurt either sides...

i really don't want this to happen...

that's the main reason why i always choose to keep silent...


as some of you may know, i believe i'm a good listener, i'm a good "rubbish-can"...

u can throw all ur feelings into me, n i'll will be there only listening...

i might only say "ah", "oh", "erm".......


i really don't know if this is good thing o not...

sometimes, i really have my own thinking, my own perspectives, my own way of doing things...

yet, i can never find the words to describe, to solidify my thoughts into speech...

very sad indeed, isn't it??




let's hope everything will turn out fine...

i only can hope that this "greedy" wish of mine can be fulfilled...

sick...

oh great...


now i have caught up a slight fever and a little headache...


how fun is that??


SHIT!!!



Let's hope that 2 panadols (o 0) will do their work~~

Happy Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day so what??

just another common day for this single guy la...

however, i can't say it's that common too...

because starting from now, i'm going to be homesick for one year again...haiz

spent 13 hours of this day to leave Kuching's home sweet home and finally arriving at Taipei's "not so sweet" dorm...

sad sad sad...

gotta wave good-bye to the senang-lelang life back at kuching...

& say hello to this new studying semester...

jia you, chung howe...

n jia you too, all pals out there....





finally....








HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY....